Showing posts with label Forced Contact. Show all posts
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AFCC: The Man behind the Curtain




     AFCC was at one stage a judges slush fund of where bribes perverted the course of justice in California's family Court.  Not only did it serve as a platform for corruption, but was also became the loudspeaker of Dr Richard Gardeners work in the 70s and 80s.  The trail of devastation for victims was left behind with few who held accountable and more who profited upon these ills.  Dr joan Kelly, co-founder of AFCC and CRC  Authored "Reformulation of Parental Alienation Syndrome"  as an attempt to revive Gardeners theories, so that it were more acceptable to its readers with the same custody outcomes, but omitting the obvious quotes that revealed the motives behind his work.  She was also on the advisory panel of Children's Rights Council along with Warren Farrell who was featured in penthouses, "Incest The Last Taboo".  He states,


"the incest is part of the family's open, sensual style of life, wherein sex is an outgrowth of warmth and affection. It is more likely that the father has good sex with his wife, and his wife is likely to know and approve -- and in one or two cases to join in."


   Parental Alienation Syndrome created lavish lifestyles for those who promote and advocate for its existence for many years and so it is no wonder attempts to revive it were made.  The reason why it was beyond controversial, was the fact that this syndrome led to many deaths.  Nathan Grieco a 14 year old boy who did not want to see his father and alleged abuse by him.  Gardner was an expert in his case and ordered what he referred to as, "Threat therapy" where he threatened the child with jailing the mother if he failed to go.  Shortly after, Nathan committed suicide.    


Thanks to one of the many decent fathers who spent $100,000 investigating California courts for his daughter to unravel why his grandchild was rendered motherless without reasonable cause, we know that this organization was used in this manner.  




     Much is left unanswered on why the environment of most family courts contain an automatic contempt for mothers, but hopefully this article will shed some light.  CANOW, provided an extensive report on the activities of the AFCC and how it was creating a system of abuse and corruption.



     The AFCC have denied promoting pro-child abuse and violence against women material, yet the content of their conferences tell a different story.  Below is a training session where it trivializes empirical studies that verify the damaging effects of not only exposing the victim to the perpetrator, but also children.  It distracts away from the safety of women and children to mislead practitioners into believing that there is a guaranteed method to separate those who are "just being abused" to those at imminent risk of death.  There is no credible method in the world and to boast such a tool is clearly negligent.





Just in case the inevitable becomes obvious with the increase of deaths due to negligence, they provide an answer to that too.  Below is a course on how to avoid accountability and continue backyard methods on treating victims of family violence and child abuse.  





  Here is a prime example of how Gardeners perspectives are very much alive and unchallenged in this organization.  The whole topic is dangerously superficial, misogynist and trains professionals to look at the mother as the issue, instead of looking into why she might be 
concerned about the child being alone with the father.  



Again, another training session on how not to be accountable and promotion of Gardeners theory.

More promotion of Gardeners concept where the victim is perceived as mentally ill and distorted as the perpetrator.  



Instead of providing a genuine focus on prevention of risk and subjecting victims to further trauma, professionals are trained on how to avoid accountability and attribute further injustice to their clients.  

Below is advertisements on the typical fathers rights agenda translated in the language of academia.  Despite years of research on the harm of infants spending minimal to little time with their mothers, below is advertisement on how to encourage maternal deprivation.  






Below is a conference from AFCC last year with more about maternal gatekeeping. Whilst "Violence Against women" topics are omitted from these conferences, "Maternal Gatekeeping" appears to be a popular event.    





More disturbing was this article found on an AFCC website instructions on how to use the legal avenues on forcibly adopting out children if the mother does not comply.






Below is a questionnaire targeting alienation.  Note how child abuse factors are not assessed.





This is one of AFCCs conferences on "Differentiating" domestic violence cases.  In other words, a how to expose the children and women to violence unless it is extremely obvious that they are at imminent risk of death.  When they refer to "Situational Violence" this means that if there is only one recorded incident, then they can justify ignoring the victim of further concerns and continue exposing them to risk.  At present, evidence of one episode of violence is not enough in family court law.  They require several incidents of brutality before they decide to order supervised contact and in some cases, nothing is done at all.    





For anyone who has had contact with fathers rights groups, they are anything but silent.  Again it is another example of the organizations lacking neutrality leaning towards the context of the mens movement.  The presenters here are mimicking intimate partner terrorism victims to skew the experience and thus generate encouragement to foster undue control over women parallel to the nineteenth century child custody experience - where children were the property of men.   





Again like every other fathers right organization, they are promoting shared parenting without considering much on the consequences.





AFCCs Influence on the Psy-Law Community in United States 
In "News Today", the article claimed that there was "new research on maternal gatekeeping" that, "Mom needs to know when to let go".  Again, its deemed the mothers fault for fathers taking less of an active role pre and post separation.  When the mother does in fact resist visits, its usually for a good reason.  Surveys on mothers have often reflected contrary to these beliefs that mothers do want their children to spend time and know the father, but not when it he poses a threat to them.  


The influence of AFCC in united states is ingrained in the Family Court system.  Lundy Bancroft explains this well in his publication:



JANET JOHNSTON'S TYPOLOGY OF BATTERERS AND THE AFCC RISK ASSESSMENT:
THE QUEST FOR SIMPLE SOLUTIONS
Efforts are underway nationally to ease the complexity of assessing risk to children from
visitation with batterers by placing batterers into distinct types, based largely on the work of
Janet Johnston. For example, a risk assessment distributed nationally by the Association of
Family and Conciliation Courts (AFCC) draws heavily from Johnston's work. The types Johnston
posits are as follows:

Type A: "Ongoing or Episodic Male Battering"
Type B: "Female-Initiated Violence"
Type C: "Male Controlled Interactive Violence"
Type D: "Separation and Postdivorce Violence"
Type E: "Psychotic and Paranoid Reactions"
(These types are called by slightly different names in the AFCC risk assessment, but are exactly
the same in other respects.)
Type A is considered the real batterer; he is very frequently and severely violent, and he
uses violence to control his partner.
Type B is violence that is initiated by the victim; she gets hurt because she is smaller, but her behavior is the problem.
Type C is violence caused by
"mutual verbal provocations," and again the woman is the victim only because she is physically
smaller; she is considered equally abusive.
Type D is violence that results from the stress of
separation and is completely uncharacteristic for the abuser.
Type E is violence resulting from a mental health problem.
This typology contains more problems that can be covered here. The types were preconceived,
with researchers instructed to assign each case to one of the categories. The research
has little external validity; her types have no relationship to any patterns observed by domestic
violence professionals in the clinical setting. Relying on these categories leads to serious errors in crafting visitation plans. Risk to children can be assessed, as we will see, but not by this
approach.

  The great majority of batterers do not fit any of Johnston's types, because they exert
"chronic pervasive control," but it is not accompanied by the most severe or frequent violence.
The most common batterer is one who uses violence two or three times a year, whose partner has never been hospitalized with injuries, and who shows no evidence of sadism. Nevertheless, his partner and children exhibit trauma symptoms due to their fear of the abuser, the repeated denial of their basic rights, and the pattern of psychological attack. Assessing the risk to these children from unsupervised visitation is a complex process, and the danger varies greatly from case to case.
  These categories encourage us to assess the victim rather than the abuser. The "A" type of
batterer is considered the only real batterer; he is described as having a victim who is severely
traumatized, who is passive and withdrawn, and who rarely starts arguments or challenges the
batterer. A woman who is stronger, angrier, or generally more unpleasant to interact with, would
be likely under Johnston's approach to be seen as mutually abusive and provocative, the "C" type of relationship; she would thus be considered largely responsible for the man's violence. In
reality, most abused women, even those who are terrified, do not give up all forms of fighting
back, and continue attempting to protect their rights and the rights of their children. The more
that the victim refuses to submit to the abuser's control, the more likely he is to escalate his
violence. Under Johnston's typology, the more courageously a woman attempts to defend herself and her children, the less responsibility the abuser has for his actions. Using this approach serves the batterer's interests well, but endangers the children. The result of this approach is that some of  the most dangerous abusers, those who are the most determined to dominate at all costs, are ironically declared to be the lowest risk to their children.


AFCCs Influence on the Psy-Law Community in Australia
If you think that this organization would not have much influence on the culture of the Family Courts, think again.  The Australian Institute of Families, a research body for the family court quotes references from their conferences throughout their publications and many of its members have presented and joined the organization.  The Family Court of Australia advertises upcoming conferences to the family law community and many judges and court personnel have been members and presenters to the conferences.  


  An appalling example of how the australian government dealt with our indigenous community.  Rather than provide more services to ensure the safety of women where statistics of family violence are much higher, this program was funded based upon "Maternal Gatekeeping".  A term used to divert the focus away from the reason why she is concerned about the child being left alone with the father.  


Sadly Child Protection in Western Australia jumped on the band wagon to preach on how they not only believe that fathers are safer with children than mothers, but that they are "Maternal Gatekeepers".  


In the Australian governments family relationship clearinghouse were a series of articles for and against the use of parental alienation syndrome in family court context.  The fact that it was even listed in the library endorsed junk science and may have mislead readers into believing that such a syndrome was prevalent above child abuse and family violence.   On the last pages of the CANOW report, the American Psychiatry Association verifies that PAS is not a syndrome, that it is not being considered for the diagnostic and statistic manual in the near future as there is no real scientific validity.   


On Lawlink.gov in NSW, a link to Parental Alienation Syndrome is listed which refers to Gardeners books.  By even linking to it is another endorsement from the Australian government that using junk science to conceal family violence is acceptable.  Considering that not only does the syndrome target victims of domestic violence as "alienators", it also promotes sending the child to the abuser.  


Internationally, AFCC has grown and so have fathers rights movements coinciding this culture.  one of the major problems is that a majority of its material erodes protections made available for victims and cultivates a closed patriarchal environment that mothers are at the mercy of.  Whilst outside these courts, women's freedoms are welcomed and accepted, but behind closed doors, she is perceived as a shameful act.  The Family Courts are the last institution that practices values belonging to the nineteenth century.  They do not respect nor value the lives of women and children in their research that could be easily compared to the propaganda authored by nazi researchers that were used to endorse genocidal goals.  The courts need to rely upon more balanced institutions research such as the world health organization that acknowledges violence against women as a major problem, but also provides research on both genders without hidden agendas. 


   Organizations that research violence against women and children need to be wary that due to the fact that abusers are cross class and cultures, they will work towards undermining their protection by any means and monopolizing laws and psych culture, they are able to continue unchallenged.  That is why it is crucial that every organization considers the opportunities that intimate terrorists may have in engaging in terrorism on a larger level whether it be in groups of like minded or by abusing the powers within professions.  This needs not only to be researched, but desperately addressed, before we have more laws that hurt women and children.

The Outrage: Contact With a Father Who Murdered Her Baby Brother

Its beyond a simple sin of the conduct in the way that the Family Courts have treated mothers and children. No words describe the psychological, social and organizational abuse by this court towards the young girl and mother. Before walking through those Family Courts, I assumed that there was a civil line and expected that there was a limit as to how much a mother and a child is forced to endure. Clearly, it was incorrect for me to simply assume that such civility is existent beyond these court room doors. There is no line, no justice in what appears to be a sick game of the weakest link where the sociopaths, narcissists and psychopaths all join in to have their take on pleasure to a child and a mothers detriment. There is no justification for the despicable act that took place upon this court day. Nor is there justification for the countless violations of human rights against women and children that are not available to read under the judgments section. This case is extreme mental and emotional torture that should never have taken place in a democratic country, a place where Australians use to utter the word, "Free".

The Father Murdered Her Baby Brother

In 2004, previous orders that are not listed on the legal database compelled the child to have prison visits with the man who bashed her three week old brother to death.

"[7] Z started to grizzle really badly. You stood up. You walked around the kitchen holding him. He sat in your elbow with his face towards you. You had his head cupped in your right hand. He started screaming. That made you feel even more frustrated. You said: "For fuck's sake, will you just be quiet." You put your left hand around the back of your right hand. With the pressure of two hands you pushed in on his head. You are a strong man, and you knew it. Z's skull was soft bone, and you knew it. You were angry, because you wanted to sleep. Through your fingers, you felt something go click at the back of his head. You had crushed in his skull, causing bleeding that inevitably led to his death. Not immediately, but within a short time, you alerted S. The two of you rushed to hospital, but it was to no avail. Resuscitation measures were commenced. Before long, they had to be terminated. "


Mothers Pleadings for Protection

In 2005, the dawn of Australia's Shared Parenting Bill occurred one of the most horrific cases I have ever read. Two years after the father killed his three week old son, the family court entertained contact with the older child. The mother begged the court not to continue contact, describing every detail of grief and past actions of his violence towards the older sibling.

"I am terrified that, if S has contact with B once he leaves prison, that he will hurt her as he hurt Z. "

" Throughout our relationship, the respondent frequently lost his temper. This usually took the form of him suddenly losing his temper and yelling and roaring at me. At other times, he also manhandled me, grabbing me by the upper arms and shaking me or even just pushing me out of his way."
"Especially in the last three years of our relationship, I lived in fear of the respondent losing his temper. I was very frightened of him when it happened."
" The respondent was also very controlling of me. He dictated where I went, who I'd see and make sure that I ran messages for him. If I didn't do what he wanted, he would blow up and lose his temper with me."

Another occasion involved the father advising the mother that he had smacked B "so hard that she did not know what had hit her"

Paternal Grandparents Betrayal

What appeared to have been a clear case of no contact until the child was eighteen twisted into a living nightmare for both of them. Whilst the father was in jail(only three years for manslaughter), the paternal grandparents had used their contact with the child to maintain contact between the child and the father whom had a complete disregard of his violent behavior and threat to the child.

"I am satisfied that Mr C Snr consciously disregarded the wishes and concerns of the mother when he permitted B to speak with the father by telephone. I am satisfied that the incident shook the mother's confidence in the paternal grandparents' preparedness to respect her wishes and follow her directions, over and above those of their son. "

".....S is a very kind and loving man. He couldn't even hit his child, she was at my place one day and she was being naughty and I said you should give her a smack, anyway he did give her - it was not smack, it was a tap, and she loves him so much and she thought I can play on this, so she broke her heart and the next minute he was crying, I said don't cry, you are supposed to be reprimanding her."


Previous Judge Who Ordered Contact
The judge who made this order in 2003 was none other than the current Chief Justice of the Family Court, "Diana Bryant" known back then as FM Bryant.

"29. On 13 October 2003 orders were made by CFM Bryant (as she then was) providing that the father's contact be reserved and that the paternal grandparents have leave to intervene in the proceedings."
The Court Reporter

The support for contact with this father was overwhelming as they all sidestepped the uncomfortable realization that this man was a danger and it was reckless to even put this mother through mental torture. An undertaking is a note that is not held as strong as other parts of the order. It is simply making an unofficial promise to the court. This is what the court reporter suggested,

"I recommend B commence contact with Mr D C and Mrs C one weekend a month from Friday to Sunday for the above mentioned reasons. If this contact is granted then I recommend Ms O attend counselling to assist her to deal with this issue, as it is necessary for B that she encourage and facilitate this contact. I recommend Mr D C and Mrs C give an undertaking they will not allow B to have contact with Mr C if there is no Order made for contact."

In other words, the child would unofficially be seeing the father. Just recently, a father who was supposed to have been supervised during contact had killed himself and his children in a car crash suspected murder - suicide. This is how far they will go to ensure that the fathers wishes supersedes everything else - including the children and mothers lives.

" It is my view that B has through her childhood years developed a warm and close relationship with Mr C. Given this, it is my view that B should be given an opportunity to have contact with Mr C in prison. If this contact is granted, I recommend Mr D C and Mrs J C be the only people to take B to the prison for contact."
The following statement is obvious in its negligence and lack of knowledge in Family Violence:

"If the Court grants an Order for an observation session at the prison, I again recommend Ms O attend counseling to assist her to deal with this."

The Courts Psychiatrist

"B needs treatment for what she will have to deal with."

"The alternative pathway is to allow this man to serve his sentence, and to await the passage of time. Time is a great healer. It may even enable everybody to gain some emotional perspective with regards to the future. If the father has treatment in goal of a serious nature, than when he is released he will be in a better position to argue that having paid his debt to society, both in terms of imprisonment, and psychotherapy, that her fears are no longer justified. In these circumstances I think that Ms O could at that stage benefit from treatment."

"He is the one who will need to take the lead, in my opinion, to have meaningful treatment before his former mother will be able to accept that eh does have in fact a capacity not to harm children regardless of whether or not he is remorseful at this stage. "
"Doctor Kornan assessed Mr H as being an uncomplicated personality "a salt of the earth, simple sort of guy who seems what I would think of as a very sort of nice fellow...".

The Judge Dismisses The Mothers Concerns
After reading quite a number of judgments, it all becomes the same after a while. More than the law itself, judges know every verbal trick in the book on how to dismiss, diminish and confuse the concerns that mothers raise. The training of judges associated in these strategies date back to the early eighties when the Association of Family and Conciliation(ACCC ) Courts launched worldwide conferences training judges with bizarre beliefs. promoting materials of Dr Richard Gardiners infamous "Parental Alienation Syndrome". Researchers have linked a higher level of corrupted cases usually against mothers and children where AFCC have established chapters. Justice Graeme Mullane of Newcastle is an Australian director in this organization. This explains the large number of corruption reports from Newcastle's Family Court including a documented internal case where the courts counselors refused to implement domestic violence policies and an interesting relationship with the lone fathers association.

"I found the mother's evidence as to the risk of physical harm to B in face-to-face contact visits at prison to be objectively unreasonable."
"My impression of the mother is that she jumped to a conclusion that B's sleep disturbance was attributable to the possibility of going to prison to see the father"

" The father denied any inappropriate discipline of B and I accept that evidence."

"I am satisfied that there is no risk of physical harm or violence to B if she has contact with the father in gaol. As I assess the evidence, the risk to B is psychological and will arise from the alleged inability of the mother to cope with her personal anxieties in relation to B going to gaol. Further, that B may suffer as a consequence of the mother's impaired capacity to parent her."

" I do not consider that B is at risk of becoming involved in domestic or family violence or that she has previously been exposed to any such violence. B's half-brother was a victim of violence and paid the ultimate price"
"For these and my consideration of the other factors referred to above, I will make orders that B have no contact with the father until further order - by which I mean until the court looks at the matter afresh when the husband makes application based on his release from prison as a change of circumstances.

"I am satisfied that the orders identified at the start of this judgment are in B's best interests."

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