Showing posts with label Australian. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Australian. Show all posts

Child Abuse Disclosure Causes Outrage


A situation where radio presenters fumbled upon a disclosure of rape has broken out in scrutiny and distaste for the show. Fathers Rights groups have condemned the mother for humiliating the daughter, despite they are to blame for the community attitudes towards rape. Peter Gregory of Fathers4Equality stated,

"What kind of a bitch is this woman!
She knew her daughter had been raped and yet she took her onto this show knowing full well that her daughter could suffer from this.
I'm sorry, but this disgusting excuse for a mother, should not only be howled down in the public arena, she should be charged with some child abuse offence."

Earlier he stated,
"We also need to remember the children who suffer parental alienation.
These children are convinced that the other parent is assaulting them in some way and they do what ever they can to remain with the abusive parent, even telling police or child protection workers detailed stories of the sexual (or otherwise) abuse, so it sounds very believable."

Note that he refers to the parent taking protective action as "abusive".


In every discussion, court judgment and debate on unsubstantiated child abuse, these men have dominated every spotlight to persuade the community that most of the time, children lie about this. We now have a culture that believes that the right thing to do is not report child abuse unless there is undeniable proof that it occurred. The President of Fathers4Equality even states in his own words in appealing to keep the law that asks for costs more often than not against victims,
"Proving that someone has "knowingly" made false allegations rather
than "mistakenly" or "recklessly" is quite a tall order. "

For protective mothers, they face an extremely challenging path in pursuing justice for thier child in these occurrences. The lone fathers association has even promoted a label that has no scientific credibility called, "Malicious Mother Syndrome". Another tactic to convince the community that a mother advocating on behalf of a child who has disclosed abuse is malicious.
It almost lingers into our community's subconscious that mothers are to blame regardless of whether they report or not. Yet once again, the person instigating the abuse has somehow avoided the spotlight, scrutiny and punishment. Maternal Deprivation, more popular than football has become a favorite male dominated sport where the game is set up so the mother is always the loser. The players are the shared parenting mob, the black shirts and other radical fathers groups. Since the 80s they have been playing this game, involving politicians, kicking all mothers in the spotlight and hiding the voice of children so that we as a community will respond with nothing but malice towards every mother and child when they seek help to stop child abuse. With all of the odds played against a protective mother, she has little opportunity but to conform to the current, "sweep it under the carpet regime" only to later endure the scrutiny and blame for a crime that she did not commit. The mother in this sport is not the other team - she is the ball in a game of hypocrisy and propaganda.

The fact that it took thousands of listeners outrage for the police to investigate, is a good indicator that these beliefs are also ingrained within the only body that can properly investigate and bring about justice for our children. Yet with such a confirmatory bias, more often than not police don't investigate when they need to and also face costs if they bring a matter to court without enough evidence. The odds that target mothers are impairing our children and young people. This young girl caught in a tragic set of circumstances making her disclosure on national radio, reveals how far one has to go just to be heard. In the abc report Minister of community services Linda Burney has taken a personal interest in the case. Yet there are 15,000 children in Australia that have been ignored along with their parents.

Family Law: The Genghis Khan Way


Genghis Khan, a well known historical figure who conquered a substantial portion of Asia during the 1200s. If he had done so today, he would have been known as a perpetrator of mass genocide.
After defeating the Tatars, Genghis Khan ordered the slaughter of all people taller than a cart handle, ensuring the loyalty of the next generation. Genghis Khan’s conquests include 30 countries with well over three billion people.

The mongols used psychological warfare which made them superior in winning battles. They destroyed cities and spared a few to spread news of their terror. Deception was also used to surprise their enemy by splitting into three groups prior to the battle and seemingly appearing out of nowhere giving the visage that his army was larger than it was. Other techniques included were luring the opponent into vulnerable positions by appearing from a hill and then disappearing into the woods whilst aligning their soldiers to come from all sides.
In our modern world, humanity has evolved to far more superior methods of genocide. United nations definition of genocide is:

General Assembly Resolution 260A (III) Article 2

In the present Convention, genocide means any of the following acts committed with intent to destroy, in whole or in part, a national, ethnical, racial or religious group, as such:

(a) Killing members of the group;
(b) Causing serious bodily or mental harm to members of the group;
(c) Deliberately inflicting on the group conditions of life calculated to bring about its physical destruction in whole or in part;
(d) Imposing measures intended to prevent births within the group;
(e) Forcibly transferring children of the group to another group

Over the years statistics have revealed what has been defined as a femnicide: the killing of women and girls. What has not yet been highlighted enough is the silent slaughter of women and children affected by family violence. Whilst family violence has been described as a gender neutral term, the statistics of gender and research on gender power reveals a very ugly side of patriarchy that is thriving upon these brutal conquests.

In recent times, we have had a very open and vocal group who define themselves as, "Mens Rights Advocates". They are against current protection laws, research and present statistics that reveal this silent epidemic of violence against women and children. Even the terminology has become an information war as propaganda is spread online and through other sources of media to dilute the public awareness of intimate partner terrorism that effects one third of the population of women. The impact of their presence has resulted in the rise of murder - suicides in the US, maternal deprivation in the UK and a rise in family violence in Australia.

Just about everywhere these mens groups have had a presence, the erosion of support for women and children in funding of services, advocacy in the media and protective laws have become prevalent. The definition of intimate partner terrorism is very true to many survivors who have endured it.
"Intimate terrorism is the kind of intimate partner violence that involves a batterer who terrorizes and takes complete control of his partner through the use of violence in combination with other control tactics such as threats and intimidation, economic control, psychological abuse, isolation, and the assertion of male privilege. In heterosexual relationships, intimate terrorism almost always involves a man terrorizing a woman, although in rare cases men are terrorized by their women partners. Although intimate terrorism is much less frequent than is situational couple violence, it is estimated that more than two million women are victims of this kind of abuse in the United States each year—and this is the intimate violence that is most likely to destroy lives." -A Sociologist’s Perspective on Domestic Violence: A Conversation with Michael Johnson, Ph.D. Interview by Theodora Ooms, CLASP

The United Nations defines terrorism as:
Criminal acts intended or calculated to provoke a state of terror in the general public, a group of persons or particular persons for political purposes are in any circumstances unjustifyable, whatever the considerations of a political, philosophical, ideaological , racial, ethnic, religious, or any other nature that may be invoked to justify them;
The Lone fathers association, Barry Williams began with a protest at parliament steps where 300 men threatened to invade parliament if they did not provide men with equal benefits as mothers.

Almost a decade later, a member of the Family Law Action Group(Flag), was charged for bombing the family courts.
The president of the FLAG, submission can be found here.
Links to Fathers Online, Directed by Warwick Marsh can be found here.
Links to the Shared Parenting Council can be found here.

In 2002, a man by the name of John Abbott, set up a militant fathers group called the Black Shirts to stalk and harassed women whom were divorced. He claimed to have 300 fathers on his registry.

He was ordered not to harass women for five years or face a four month jail term. One year later the shared parenting bill was introduced.
The Shared Parenting Bill itself is designed in such a way that corners victims of child abuse and domestic violence. Here is how it has this effect:
  1. "Unsubstantiated" allegations of violence or child abuse is interpreted is "False".
  2. "The burden of proof" is solely upon the parent to provide the evidence.
  3. The definition of violence was altered from, "fearful of" to "reasonably fear" resulting in every victim being scrutinized with a confirmatory bias of being mentally ill.
  4. A paper reduction section was introduced to limit crucial evidence to being submitted.
  5. "meaningful relationships" was physically placed above consideration for welfare of the child.
  6. Restraining Orders were used as evidence against the victim.
  7. Resident Parents were forced by order to provide their address even when it was not safe to do so.
  8. Police station visits are seen as "hostile" environments for children.
  9. Taking Children to see a counsellor over abuse is considered, "Medical abuse".
  10. Evidence gathering itself is interpreted as "abuse" and in cases where substantial evidence was provided, the parent was more likely to be punished for accessing services to provide evidence.
  11. Victims cannot relocate without a court order or permission from their perpetrator. They have the same ratio as a patient in brain surgery in success and if they speak of family violence, it is much less of a chance.
So in the Legal framework, like Genghis Khans psychological warfare, perpetrators have their victims surrounded.

The same tactics of confusing the enemy is the illusion that the custody is shared. Along with the changes, mens advocates assisted with indoctrinating psychologists with the following junk psychology:

No scientific body in the world has accepted any of these as real syndromes. Yet, this is in reality a diversion for researchers as the information has been spread like a virus all over the internet. They have become obstacles to be debunked, whilst rogue psychologists are providing their expertise affecting real life court cases. In the mean time, the more and more each stakeholder is convinced that these syndromes are real, the more the perpetrators have seized their team-players in their monopoly resulting in the isolation of their victim.

Arming their members with the information on how to conquer intervention order cases, the mens movements also engage in providing "advocates" to arrive on the scene with police in domestic violence call outs.


The three different groups reflects Genghis Kahns strategy of positioning three or more groups coming from different places to illude the enemy into believing that they are surrounded. This is very much the case for groups seeking to defend women and children. In the list of family law submissions, the groups represented had the same people contained, but authored by different members. The number of groups obscured the decision makers into believing that there was more support than there actually is. This is the same as the military strategy that Khan used when his forces were less than the opponent.
The desire to "conquer" women and children's rights is prevalent and evident in the campaigns and strategies used resulting in the success of the shared parenting bill. The results where women who were determined to protect children lost custody is also part of the genocide definition. In United States, where similar cells have been more established, shared parenting was in reality an entrenched pathway with numerous traps which led to the surge in men securing children as they secured property. Of course if their perceived assets did not perform to their liking, the mother and child are often punished with enforced isolation from each other commonly known as, "Maternal Deprivation".
An even more concerning trend, jihad supporters have also aligned themselves with these groups in United States. Apart from the christian based fathers rights groups, both groups are parallel in their beliefs and fit the criteria in furthering the goals of terrorism. Terrorist network operatives have successfully infiltrated South East Asia(Abuza, 2004), by building alliances with groups aggrieved with government. An example of this is the successful alliance of the Khmer Rouge that assisted in infiltrating Cambodia. It seems like a more unlikely scenario in the western world, however these mens movements are well suited in furthering their interests. They have already done the hard work in unraveling the stability of government to conform to their goals and have similar beliefs in regards to the rights of women and children.

Fathers4Equality Continue Their Attacks On Journalists

Below, the Fathers4Equality are planning to destroy a journalists career, because she dared to provide material that was opposed to shared parenting.  This is an example of the bullying behavior that has been constant from these groups.  To the press councils credit, they have complained to F4E for the large number of submissions that they received.  if only the Attorney General have exorcised the same wisdom.  

---- Forwarded Message ----
From: PhilM <punter@internode.on.net>
To: fathers4equality@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Monday, 8 June, 2009 11:22:40 AM
Subject: Re: [fathers4equality] Disturbing letter from Australian Press Council



I'd suggest you pinpoint the biggest advertisers in The Australian and get 
your concerns to them. It works for me many years ago when The Advertiser in 
South Australia went in a similar direction, to a point where I was 
threatened with legal action by one of the sub-editors. Just be careful how 
it's worded, always putting lots of "In my/our opinion.... " into your 
arguements. Especially go for those companies that more likely get sales 
from men than women. The newspapers are fully aware though of what gender 
has the most control of the purse-strings and it's why they will be so 
biased in their articles, but I think they also need to remember that men 
have sisters, mothers, new partners, etc that all see how bad the situation 
is for any father and the kids these days when the parents split.

PhilM

----- Original Message ----- 
From: ashvani_patil
To: fathers4equality@ yahoogroups. com
Sent: Monday, June 08, 2009 10:34 AM
Subject: [fathers4equality] Disturbing letter from Australian Press Council

Folks,

I have received a disturbing letter from the Australian Press Council.

They have 'complained' to F4E that they have received over 60 submissions 
about Caroline Overington's recent anti-shared care
articles.

It seems from the sub-text that the APC is not interested in reviewing these
complaints, as they are asking that I instead write to the Editor of the 
Australian myself, and they are asking this in a less than respectful tone.

Given that they know that I had already written to the editor but received 
no response, I am somewhat bemused by this request.

I can understand their desire to treat all the complaints about Overington 
as one submission, but they seem not to be interested in the issue itself, 
and are trying to wash their hands of it.

Well, I don't think this is good enough.

Before I complain to them however I want some private correspondence from 
you all on the following matter.

I will indeed write to the editor one more time, with a list of DEMANDS from 
us. Given the damage done by Overington, we need to come up with a list of 
demands of equal weighting. Lets be creative here.  Just email me at this email address with your ideas. 

Australia's Family Court Money Trail

If you have ever accessed the court as a survivor of violence or a protective parent, you'll know what I mean when I say that they lick their lips at the sight of money.  Getting the child to the abuser is like hitting the jackpot as they know this will lock in the family courts financial future.  Lets face it, dead beat dads are bad for them as they know that they will give up when they have had their rampage against the ex.  Protective parents will keep litigating until they have lost everything.

An urban legend is spreading through Australia about the Federal Magistrates court having wild parties, snorting cocaine amongst other cocktails of indulgence to eliminate the pain of compassion and humanity at is worst.   It is called the "Debauchery house" and as the legend goes,   a lawyer who saw what they were doing and wrote about it in a book.  Just before he published it, he was called in for a meeting with a warning that he would be disbarred if he were to proceed and even when he altered it to fiction he was .  It might explain the recent reports of judges not even bothering to read the evidence, presenting disheveled in attire and requesting its litigants to "speak in simple terms'.  If this "urban legend" is true, we ask you to come forth.  We want names, we want any footage that you have acquired and any other evidence you have.  It is about time a change of culture occurred in the court, whether or not this urban legend is true.  We have a way of releasing this information without being affected by Australian Law and its treaties.  

It is about time victims of violence and child abuse receive true justice.  its about time that the lies and propaganda that surrounds a deep lack of transparency is exposed.  True justice has no place for those who seek to be, "above the law".  So lets begin with the information that has already been revealed.  There is a 5 million dollar black hole in the Federal Magistrates budget.  $60,000 of that was spent on fine bone china.  According tot he australian , the 5 million dollar black hole was associated with 16 magistrates.

The minimum fees that are charged between the two courts appear significantly different by a couple of hundred dollars.  At the Family Court, it is $1905 which includes initial application, final order application and two hearings.  This does not include the costs to file affidavits and other forms not mentioned in the fees and charges section.  In the Federal Magistrates court it costs $1367 for the same set of fees.  An average lawyer will cost you $3000 per hearing plus expenses for the time spent advising you and preparing the forms.  In February 2009, submissions for the access to justice inquiry was closed and leading up to that date, there were mainly internal submissions  or input from liaising organizations.  Just before the deadline closed, Child concern Australia and a few other organizations supporting women  and children submitted their concerns on the access to justice and thoughts about the proposed changes. Prior to this, media releases were on plans to axe the Family Court and divert its traffic to the Federal Magistrates.  This would have been a negative outcome for children and women affected by family violence.  The reason why the federal magistrates are so cheap is that they are for short court cases where everything is rushed through and family violence is ignored as a result of its processes.  Its actually a batterers paradise , where there is no time for him to be investigated, no time to delve into the history and an enormous pressure place upon the mother to give in to what may come of it including her or her children's life. Just rush through, threaten severe consequences if she does not obey her ex husband and "cha ching" get as much money out of it as possible.  At the very beginning, they pretend that they are going to look into family violence, but really its about gathering as much information from you so that you will become silent.  Snatching evidence must be part of the training as the reports of this is widespread.  They don't tell you this to begin with as it will ruin the "surprise" and most importantly those initial filing costs.  You must file relatively early for a final order, so this is also part of it.  Getting as many people through the doors is how the money reaches maximum income.  The very reason why the SPCA is supporting the Federal Magistrates Court is that it will reduce the visibility of victims and support the notion of false allegations which is a common reference to "unsubstantiated".  With haste and a drive to put as many couples in and out of this court system as quickly as possible, victims are invisible and their perpetrators have less time to keep the "charm" going without being found out.  With this system it is virtually impossible to substantiate allegations.  Once the final orders are rushed through to the end, a litigant cannot apply for three years.  

Stay tuned for more on Australia's Family Court Money Trail

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Media Release: Family Court in Violation Of Human Rights Without Changes

“After the recent Family Law Campaign in Australia, demonstrated negligence of child abuse and Family Violence Victims, it became clear that changes were needed....”

Family Court in Violation Of Human Rights Without Changes
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Thu, 7 May 2009 04:53:01 GMT
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Fathers Rights Groups who campaigned for the current laws have made statements again to diminish victims 
rights when accessing the Family Court. The president for Fathers4Equality stated in his press release, What 
is more astonishing it seems is that unlike the parliamentary committee that recommended these laws in the 
first place, the Chief Justice has not consulted widely before making such an extraordinary intervention (in fact 
she has not consulted with any fathers groups at all). 
One of the speakers at the Rally included a fathers rights advocate, Ann Blessington. Some of the attendees 
were fathers who were concerned about child abuse in the Family Law. Not only were they consulted, one 
contributed his story of concern for his child on the youtube videos as part of the campaign. The message was 
clearly not about gender but of child abuse and violence that is constantly overlooked within the pro contact 
framework. The consensus of Anonymums decided to support the promotion of the rally as it raised a lot of the 
issues they had been raising for quite some time. 
It is noted that The Council of The European Assembly has investigated UK Family Court for Human Rights 
violations, The Assembly further notes that mothers have had their children removed because they were 
victims of domestic violence or on the basis of medical evidence for which there had been no second opinion. 
It was further stated, The Assembly further notes that England habitually gives judgment in family 
proceedings without the judgment being in public (in conflict with Article 6). This Assembly notes that there 
can be an argument for anonymity, but not for the reasoning of the court to be kept secret which means that 
the court’s reasoning is not properly accountable.. 
At Present numerous cases have been decided upon with little external expert evidence and public judgement, 
inviting opportunity for children to be at risk especially when dealing with Family Violence and Child Abuse. 
Despite Parent Alienation Syndrome being largely debunked within the scientific community, it is well known 
that these diagnosiss are ruling proceedings to the cost of children well being. Last year, a ruling was 
debunked in Brisbane and the Family Consultant involved was disciplined. Parent Alienation Syndrome was 
created by DR Richard Gardner and also promoted pedophiliac philosophies that were compared to the 
Leadership council to a North American Man Boy Love Association(NAMBLA). He recommended that threat 
therapy where the abused child is threatened with time away from the protective parent(mostly mothers) if 
they continue to hold resentment about the abuser. Most legal practitioners refer to it as, Parent Alienation 
but in most cases the outcome is the same. The laws are loose on what level of evidence and whose side the 
judge takes and the culture of the court has been extreme upon the side of the accused with little 
accountability for the outcomes. 

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