"Shared Parenting" or Abusers Lobby, You Decide

Many Fathers attended the rally today in support of safer court orders.  The mens movements were given an opportunity to take part and promote abuse free contact.  Ann Bressington, known for her advocacy for fathers spoke in South Australia.  No other members were present to support the safety of children.  Instead, they perceived "safety" as an attack on their "rights" which really questions how much rights do these men believe they should have above children?  This is why I believe it is very relevant to now ask the question of the purposes of these groups.  "Pro Contact" is a minimal word to describe the behavior of these groups.  When there are groups that justify legislation that overlooks family violence and murder, they are not speaking for all men as all men do not justify such things.  They speak for themselves as abuser lobbyists.


This is an email from the secretary of The Shared Parenting Council of Australia:


From:
 Simon <email.hunt@gmail.com>
To: Executive Secretary - Shared Parenting Council of Australia <secretariat@spca.org.au>
Cc: fathers4equality@yahoogroups.com; Lone Fathers Association Australia <president@lonefathers.com.au>; Fatherhood Foundation <info@fathersonline.org>;F4E-Melbourne@yahoogroups.com; Senator Steve Fielding <senator.fielding@aph.gov.au>; "president@fathers4equality-australia.org" <president@fathers4equality-australia.org>; James Johnson <james0448@hotmail.com>; John Hirst <j.hirst@latrobe.edu.au>; John Stapleton <john.stapleton@gmail.com>; James Adams <jadams@fairfaxmedia.com.au>; Matt Norman <mattnorman@theactorscafe.com>; "Bawden, Matilda" <matilda.bawden@parliament.sa.gov.au>; "richard.bosi@lionheart.com.au" <richard.bosi@lionheart.com.au>; Richard Hillman Foundation Inc <webmaster@rhfinc.org.au>; Traks <traks@tpg.com.au>; Yuri Joakimidis <joakimidisyuri@yahoo.com.au>; norsaint publishing <norsaintpublishing@gmail.com>; "Nowell, Laurie" <nowelll@heraldsun.com.au>; Phil Noonan <p.noonan@bigpond.net.au>; ian kay <iankay-tmf@bigpond.com>
Sent: Sunday, 3 May, 2009 12:34:17 PM
Subject: [fathers4equality] Re: Press release



Wayne,
Good to see this initiative in response to what is clearly a crisis for children and their fathers in this country.
 
Shared parenting after separation / divorce is being attacked on the basis that its unsafe for women and children.
 
These people - the industry - are making a national call for children to be denied there fathers if they are being accused of "Family Violence" (in all its forms) regardless of whether or not it can even be proved. I thought everybody knew that allegations of DV were standard procedure in the great majority of Custody hearing before the Family Court. The lawyers have been telling us this for years. 
 
I've been saying for some time that we need public forums - public meetings that give the media access to the truth of whats going on. Looks like we've been beaten to the line, by organisations that can so easily engineer publicity and media support.
 
However, our advantage is truth - very powerful but it needs to be exposed. We need public meetings with speakers URGENTLY
 
The media needs access to the truth of whats going on - at present they have next to no access to the truth, mainly  because they rely on the press releases they get from vested interest (including "experts) in the industry and are no longer paid to do 'investigative journalism'. 
Regards
Simon Hunt
FLAG
2009/5/3 Executive Secretary - Shared Parenting Council of Australia<secretariat@ spca.org. au>

The SPCA is planning a  series of press release about the deteriorating position we find ourselves in with respect to Domestic Violence and any watering down of the current FLAct.

 

Have you a statement or have any of your groups statements we can quote in relation to the following news items

 

http://www.familyla wwebguide. com.au/news/ pg/news/view/ 636/index. php&filter=

In the published guide there is no mention of how they court is to deal with unproven allegations or in other words “false allegations”

 

http://www.familyla wwebguide. com.au/news/ pg/news/view/ 635/index. php&filter=1

and

http://www.familyla wwebguide. com.au/news/ pg/news/view/ 631/index. php&filter=1

 

and

The Chief Justice comments today

 


Just a recapture of what May Day is about:

FAMILY COURT MAYDAY! RALLY & PETITION 10.30 FOR 11 a.m. Sunday 3rd MAY 2009

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In memory of all the children who have died at the hands of their parents following Family Court involvement....RIP
And the children who continue to be forced into contact with violent or sexually abusive parents by the Family Law Act which is failing to protect children.
SEE DETAILS OF THE RALLY IN YOUR CITY on Sunday, May 3 BELOW. 
And sign the petition here:
http://www.gopetition.com/petitions/family-court-of-australia-amendments.html

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TO SEE ALL 14 YOUTUBE VIDEOS OF THE CAMPAIGN, INCLUDING 6 PARENT STORIES, PROFESSIONALS PERSPECTIVE, JOURNALISTS CALLING FOR CHANGE, CHILDREN'S STORIES AND DRAWINGS OF DISTRESS:

http://www.youtube.com/results?search_type=&search_query=barbbiggs&aq=f

OUR GOALS 
Safer Family Law Campaign (SFLC) is a national campaign dedicated to giving Australian children and parents the fundamental human right; to be safe.

We are a group of concerned Australian self-help groups, parents, legal experts, academics, domestic violence workers, men's anti-violence groups, health professionals, journalists, authors, counselors and members of the public from all over this country who are seeing consistent failures in the Family Law system to protect children.

CSFLS seeks changes to the Family Law Act and FCA practice where:

(1) primary focus on safe outcomes for children takes precedence over ‘time spent’ principles, especially in cases where Domestic Violence (DV) and/or child abuse is raised; and such matters being raised must be investigated;

(2) recognition that violence to a parent is also abusive to the child of that parent;

(3) a new, discrete unit is formed within FCA to carefully manage investigation of cases where these matters are raised;

(4) all professionals responding to family separation in FCA, including mental health professionals, judges and legal experts in the field advising/representing clients, must receive continuing accredited training in DV and child abuse;

(5) family (including children) or contributing professionals' concerns suggesting DV and child abuse require that all evidence held by any governmental, police, law, medical and/or other agencies pertaining to the parties' and children's well-being must be sought out and included for review by this new FCA special unit; and

(6) that these records be connected on central police and court systems at local, state and federal levels, and;

(7) if, on the balance of probabilities, DV/abuse patterns are found to exist, or to be likely to exist, then any contact orders/agreements must detail how children’s safety is to be supported; and if such DV/abuse patterns are considered on expert opinion to be likely to strongly endanger children’s physical security or psychological health, then even occasional contact with the offending parent or parents may be disallowed as safe, and;

(8) in such cases the primary focus on safe outcomes for children must include plans for recovery from such trauma in parenting agreements or orders, and merely the passage of time should not be taken to suggest such DV/abuse patterns will be reduced or stop causing harm to the child, and;

(9) checks and balances are put in place to review FCA orders remain safe over time; and

(10) That 'blanket secrecy' laws be altered to allow more free speech and media and academic review regarding the Family Law Act, FCA, DHS and DOCS culture.


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PEOPLE AND ORGANIZATIONS INVOLVED IN THE SUNDAY MAY 3 EVENTS

QLD

SILENT RALLY
Venue: THE LAW COURTS COMPLEX,
304 George streetBrisbane
Time: 11am
Contact the co-ordinator at:
happyandblessed@hotmail.com


NSW

Venue: Cook & Phillip Park, Yurong St East Sydney (near Aquatic Centre)
Time: 10.30am for 11a.m. Sunday May 3 

Liz Mullinar - founder Mayumarri healing centre will MC the event

Prof Lesley Laing Sydney University - speaker

Speaker - A mother who has lost children in a murder suicide will speak out for the first time about how a court 'expert' said she had mental problems when she alleged abuse by her ex-partner.

Speaker: Barbara Biggs journalist/author/ rally instigator 
www.barbarabiggs.com.au
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Barbara_Biggs

Cat Gander, Head 
Women's Refuge Movement NSW

Robyn Cotterell-Jones, Executive Director
Victims of Crime Assistance League Inc NSW


VICTORIA

Venue: between the children's maze playground and Rathdowne St, Carlton, next to the Museum: Rathdowne St entry or cross park from Nicholson on foot
Time: 10.30 for 11a.m. start Sunday May 3

MC: PHIL CLEARY Commentator and advocate for action to prevent violence against women, after his sister was murdered by her former partner 

SARAH VESSALI – LAWYER Private practitioner working predominantly in the area of family violence and family law. Previously principal lawyer at Women's Legal Service Victoria for almost 8 years.

DIONNE FEHRING whose two very young children were murdered by her ex-husband five weeks after he was given custody, despite his threats and a history of domestic violence. 

JEN JEWEL BROWN Council of Single Mothers and their Children, journalist, Vic rally and campaign coordinator

CHARLES PRAGNELL child protection expert since the 1960s, is highly concerned over “Parental Alienation Syndrome” theory in Family Law proceedings forcing many Australian children to suffer continuing abuse and even death. 

SPECIAL GUESTS include fine emerging singer/songwriter/guitarist FIONA MCKENZIE

A clothes line of little red clothes will be raised to represent 20 children whose lives have been lost in family violence since 1996. White flowers will be pinned to the clothes to celebrate and honour these children. 
Wear red for power wisely used and in sympathy. 

Further info: Jen Jewel Brown 0408 898 338 jenjewelbrown@fastmail.fm

SOUTH AUSTRALIA

Venue: Steps Parliament House
North Tce Adelaide
Time: 10.30am for 11a.m.

Rally Details: email Rina Russo at rinarusso@dodo.com.au

MC - Ann Bressington Independant MP

Ann O'Neill, founder Angelhands - Adelaide speaker
A mother who lost her children in a murder suicide at the hands of their father.

Ilsa Evans, Academic/Author of Broken, a book on domestic violence patterns

Professor Freda Briggs - National spokesperson
Emeritus Professor, Uni of SA

Rina Russo Co-founder MACSA - MC and South Australia co-ordinator

WESTERN AUSTRALIA

Venue: Princess May Park, Fremantle (cnr Cantonment & Parry and Adelaide Streets, behind Clancy’s)
Time: 10.15 for 10.30am start Sunday May 3

Email contact: ahartwig@womenscouncil.com.au

MC - Ann Moore Chairwoman of the Women's Council for Domestic & Family Violence Services (WA)

Speaker - Carolyn Harris Johnson, Academic/Author of Commonwealth Prize-winning
book Come With Daddy (2005), interviews with seven mothers whose children were murdered by their fathers following family breakdown including

Speaker - Michelle Steck, a journalist mother who lost one child in a murder suicide 16 years ago after being pressured to agree to consent orders despite a history of domestic violence. After a second marriage, she has now been in the FCA for eight years with her four children.

Speaker - Tanya, a mother who was stabbed 31 times by her husband but is still unable to get a 'no contact' order under existing Family Law legislation will tell her story of escaping death at the hands of her ex-husband who still wants to see his seven children.

Angela Hartwig, Executive Officer
Women's Council for Domestic & Family Violence Services (WA)

IN MEMORIUM20 CHILDREN WHOSE LIVES HAVE BEEN LOST IN FAMILY DISPUTES SINCE 1996

• 1996 - January 25: Peter May shot and killed his three children, Lisa eleven, Andrew eight, and Natalie seven during a contact visit. On the same day, he also killed his wife and her parents. May's history of domestic violence was commonly known and reported,
• 1998 – October 23: After Ronald Jonkers lost custody of Aaron DeBaugy 5, Ashlee seventeen months and David seven, he poisoned them by carbon monoxide in their car on a contact visit in Perth,
• 1999 – August: WA four young children were gassed along with their father Mark Heath after a family court dispute,
• 2000 - Rhonda Bartley was shot dead by her ex-partner in Berri while attending a court ordered contact handover of their baby daughter,
• 2001 - September: Mikaylah Green eleven weeks, Taylah Pringle eleven months and Jackson Merrott six, were smothered by their father on a contact visit in Sydney,
• 2002- Ana Hardwick 35 is strangled by her former partner after the family court granted her custody of their eleven and eight year old children,
• 2004 – April 26: Jessie Dalton nineteen months and Patrick Dalton thirteen weeks were smothered by their separated father Jayson Dalton after a family court order to him to return the infants to their mother Dionne,
• 2005 – 4th September: Robert Farquharson killed his sons Jai ten, Tyler seven, and Bailey two, by driving them into a dam in Winchelsea, south-west of Melbourne on Fathers' Day contact visit,
• 2008 – May 9: The body of three year old Imran Zilic, was found after his father threw him down a mine on an access visit,
• 2008 – January 3: Christopher McEwen allegedly raped and then killed his daughter Rhiannon McEwen on Bribie Island on New Years Eve. The matter of the children's residency was before the Family Court in 2004 where the father was given residency of all three children. It is not known to this writer if it was by consent. However, this father was cleared by a psychiatrist to leave a Brisbane hospital's mental health unit just nine days before he allegedly raped and murdered his ten-year-old daughter. Queensland Health did not report the man – who had spent two weeks as an involuntary patient in the hospital's mental health unit – to the Department of Child Safety. Given this man's mental condition, the question is how in 2004 was it that he obtained sole custody of his four children aged between six and ten?


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