Fathers Rights Movements

A lot of people have been concerned about fathers rights movements that have nothing to do with feminism and find a lot of what they are advocating for as something to strongly oppose.  Its because of the attitude and the beliefs behind it that is destructive to our international community.  Some of the people who have taken a stand against what they are doing had nothing to do with feminism but because they were extremely concerned about what this is doing to our children and society,so they became feminists.  Some did not agree with feminism, but recognized the need for women and children's rights and how they have been at stake with the damage that these movements have imposed.  We all have different beliefs and attitudes which is what makes us all unique human beings and something to marvel.  It is when it is imposed upon others at the cost of their own, it becomes harmful.  

Here are a few things about FR movements that are harmful:

1. They support beliefs that justify and protect men who are violent towards women and children.
2. When there is a public outrage, they pretend it never occurred and attempt to delete all facts and evidence related to this.
3. When one person speaks out against their actions, they do everything they can to villianize and dehumanize that person.
4. They promote debunked philosophies that are designed to devoid all evidence of child abuse and violence against women.
5. They attack every organization that promotes protection of children and women.
6. They promote control of women and children to be seen and not heard.
7. They promote hate towards women and children as burdens to society and often paint them as liars.
8. They promote the notion that children are possessions without fully comprehending the responsibilities associated to raising children.
9. They completely vilify motherhood and anyone who supports appreciation of it.
10. They are against women's and children's rights.

Unfortunately, there has been a lot of unethical cashing in on the "fatherlessness" industry without taking any social responsibility for the consequences.  Because these bullies have attempted to dominate what represents fathers and exclude anyone who opposes these beliefs, the picture of fatherhood has become shattered.  The word "dad" now means "tyrant".   

Control never truly works, we all learn to see through it and understand the chains that were place upon us.  The funny thing about people who use control is that they don't want you to notice because they know thats when the game is up.  For the person controlling, they are caught in their own trap where they neglect control of their own needs to control the other person and in turn blame the control-lee of the consequences that arise from this.  

A lot of these men are extremely fearful almost to the extent of paranoia.  What they fear the most is that someone will discover them, expose what they have done wrong and use what they have learned about fear to fuel the fear in others.

Very few of these men actually let go of this inner cycle as they lack direction in how to exist in any other form, but instead attempt to mimic the representations of those who advocate for liberty without ever genuinely grasping it.  The solution unfortunately for these types are ultimately consequences: Learning that these behaviors are not tolerated by anyone and that if they indeed want to truly achieve a genuine "good Father" status with their children, then they need to do the work.