Mothers on the Run: Ann Louise Vallette - The facts without the Fiction

_{Why would a mother take her children out of school, risk jail and rip her sons away from everything they know?}

Despite the misrepresentation from the media, it does not take a genius to see what is really going on...

Here are some facts about Australians system that the family court and fathers groups don't want you to know:

• If your child is being abused and you don't have a high amount of evidence to support it, the Family Court will send your children to the abuser.
• Parent Alienation Syndrome developed by DR Richard Gardner was largely debunked by the scientific community as he suggested that even in substantiated cases of child sexual abuse, the child should be sent to the abuser and denied contact to the protective parent. 
• _{False  allegations of child abuse in the family court are as low as 2%}
• _{For years the family court has been systematically ignoring substantiated child abuse anddomestic violence.}
• _{Family violence and child sexual abuse are underreported.}
• _{Australia is one of the highest rate male dominated police force in the world.} 
• _{Since the "no fault divorce", it is mainly mothers who are running with their children}
• _{Since the shared parenting bill, homicides increased by 14% in 2006.}
• _{There is no domestic violence homicide review team in Australia.}
• _{Most mothers run with their children because of family violence and child abuse.}

In the article “Father pleads for help to find abducted sons by Carol Nadar”, “Revealed: The faces behind  international Search by Carol Nadar”  and “Missing in Sweden, Melbourne fathers dash to find sons By Carol Nadar” it contains the following facts:

 

_{1.        Two boys aged 9 and 11 last spoke to the father on 4th October 2008}

 

_{2.        The plane was booked for October 9th 2008 to return the boys, but they did not board the plane.}

_{3.        Court Order required her to return them to Melbourne by 11 October 2008}

_{4.        The couple married in Sweden.}

_{5.        Ann Louise Vallette gave birth to her sons in Sweden and the couple resided there for 12 years.}

_{6.        Divorce battle has been going on for five years.}

_{7.        Proceedings have occurred in both Sweden and Australia.}

_{8.        In Sweden, the father was granted custody of the children whilst the mother was granted access of two visits per year.}

_{9.        The father claims the mother may harm the children because she raised protective concerns about child sexual abuse.}

_{10.     There are no statements of the mother having a criminal history, drug abuse or suffering from mental health issues.  Such statements would have been made as the articles are in the context of a plea to the public to pursue this women and the boys.}

_{11.     The mother has raised concerns about sexual abuse on numerous occasions and the police failed to substantiate her concerns.}

_{12.     No statements are made that evidence suggested the boys were not sexually abused.}

_{13.     The Father had stopped access after two visits and claimed he could no longer afford them.}

_{14.     The mother had to pursue the Hague convention just to obtain access to the boys and this was granted.}

_{15.     Family Consultant sides with the Father in denying the mother access to her sons by raising concerns that she would keep them in Sweden and claims that the boys preferred to live with the father but wanted to see their mother.}

_{16.     No statements were made as to why the reversal of custody was made to the father other than her concerns about child sexual abuse.}

_{17.     Father issues recovery order that Denys the children’s access to basic needs such as health, education and social access.}

_{18.     Despite the father originally contravening the order initially, the Swedish Police are planning to jail the mother and the Australian Family Court plan to punish the boys by denying all contact to their mother.}    

_{19.     George Pessor, who is also an IT consultant claims that he is bankrupt and appeals to the public for money to persue children that he has allegedly sexually abused.  He justifies this need to pay for a private investigator and counseling for the trauma that he inflicted by issuing a recovery order.} 

_{20.     Family Court of Australia issues media release.}

We have run a petition to appeal to the hague convention to leave Ann Louise Vallete alone. We received a the following message(what I find revealing is highlighted in red):    

 

To Whom ever wrote the article about the two missing boys Frank and Andre Valette:

I am the boys cousin, let me tell you right now that the Mother is a screw ball..... She suffers Bipolar. She accused the Father, My Mother, My Sister, Me, Countless foster homes ( as the kids were moved from home to home every time their was an allegation made by Ann Louise ) and even the Police department in Sweden for child abuse..... It is clear to me that it is Ann Louise that has perhaps been abused herself as a child, and is now suffering post traumatic stress disorder. Believe me, the kids are NOT safe with the mother, I have stayed with Ann Louise and her family in Sweden, and I can tell you from FIRST HAND experience that she needs mental help right NOW. If you read the actual court case reports over the last 5 years you would be absolutely shocked, and any normal sane person would be able to tell that Ann Louise is mental within the first few sentences of her allegations. 

On this particular matter you have no frame of reference and should keep your opinions to yourself. This case has nothing to do with Man Vs Woman, so get over it..... Its about the safety of the kids, and right now I really am worried about them. They haven't even contacted their best friends in over two months, as the mother forbids them to use the phone or internet to communicate, because she knows dam well that they will try and seek help.... Take this bullshit petition off, you have no clue as to the origins of this case.......

George Pesor himself signed the petition stating the following:

I am Frank and Andre's father.

It is astounding that people on this forum are prepared to make statements based on the very little insight they have into this matter.

This matter has been investigated on many occasions by Courts, Police, Social Welfare Authorities, Interpol,prosecutor in both Sweden and Australia on numerous occasions since Jan2003.

Remember that the Ann-Louise is judged by both Jurisdictions as an unfit parent.

The children's best interests are the issue not the parent's.

Remember, there are No statements that say in the news that she is an unfit parent or that she has been officially diagnosed with a mental health condition and if she was, don't you think they would have included that in the appeal?

Parental Alienation behavior was initially identified in the study of sex offenders that revealed during the process of grooming, sex offenders would alienate the child from the mother and isolate the victim from other potential stakeholders that would inform authorities.  

One of the classic statements made by abusers of all types is, "She/He is crazy".  This then completely isolates and undermines the victim keeping them locked in the abuse cycle.   

How successful an abuser is based upon their powers of persuasion.  Research on Corporate psychopaths, reveals that most organizations did not acknowledge the behavior until after the damage had exceeded to extremes.  DR Richard Gardner who wrote many books that convinced the family law community that child sexual abuse was not harmful to children and what was harmful was protecting children from it.  

Alfred Kinsey convinced the psychological community based on cruel experiments with babies and children that babies have orgasms based on violent screaming.  There are still supporters today that will not only tell you that false allegations of child sexual abuse is prevalent, but that we need to be more accepting of pedophiles as we do homosexuals.  This has been one of the major barriers for people of from same sex communities as they have had to struggle with being labelled as part of the same group no thanks to groups that promote pedophilia amongst other extremists.  

Meanwhile, the family law community has really gone insane in their witch hunts against  protective mothers and child abuse victims.  Despite recent reports

that Parental Alienation Syndrome is not being used by the courts, this is obviously not the case.  

So far we have 28 signatures and one included the father who took out the recovery order.  Ladies and gentleman, I know we all have our own stuff going on and its really hard, but as people who know what is actually going on compared to the brainwashed mainstream(Thanks to the abuse supporters who spread their propaganda - you know who you are),  it only takes one small moment of your lifetime to acknowledge Ann Valletts boys and potentially save some lives.  So please add your signature here and a big thank you to those who have already.