Savin Aaliyah

THIS IS A COPY OF THE MOTHER'S ORIGINAL BLOG:
Wednesday, February 18, 2009 

 

EXPOSING THE PEDOPHILE 
Current mood:FED UP 
Category: Life

So I have decided to expose the pedophile for a number of reasons which I will get into. I am referring to him as the pedophile because I havent yet looked into laws regarding slander so I am playing it on the safe side for now. I have copied and pasted only a mere 10 day section of documentation of things my daughter has said and done over the last 2 years. So keep that in mind as you read that there is a whole lot more to the story. There are a number of incidents of her speaking of him hurting her pee pee along with a number of symptomatic behavior that all points to sexual abuse prior to her speaking of "Daddy's Worm."  So with that knowledge it isnt hard to figure out what  "daddy's worm"  is. At this point I have decided to expose him on the internet, youtube, myspace, email, and eventually want to get it out to the media. Myself and a number of other people, mandated reporters, and Aaliyahs psychologist have reported the abuse a number of times to CPS, Police and the court system. The pedophile is an extremely manipulative charming person that talks his way out of everything along with the help of his own abusive parents. They are lying to keep their little family problems a secret and have managed to fool a number of so called professionals into not even looking at the evidence or speaking to witnesses that have seen and witnessed my daughters behavior and statements after being with her father. So basically I am hoping to get this to a point where my daughters voice can be heard along with all of the people who have seen and know the truth vs the pedophile and his sick demented family and their lies. I also figured by choosing to do this it breaks the silence of abuse which is the number 1 reason why abusers succeed at what they do. The court has tried to silence me by taking her away from me and I will not shut up until my daughter is safe. I also hope by showing this that in some way someone has the answers as to help save Aaliyah from all of the harm being done to her and to help get the pedophile put where he should be and the pedophile's father where he should be. I will be adding the 27 minute video of my daughter talking on June 9 th to this posting asap for you all to watch. And as I find out the laws on slander I will be posting the whole story and taking out his name (if I have to as I did here). Thank you all for your support, help, and prayers so far, I appreciate it.


 


 

June 1, 2008

At Raley’s at 4:30, Darrel and I met (The pedophile) and his dad. (The pedophile)’s dad handed me Aaliyah. She sunk into me. She seemed exhausted, relieved and really quiet. Aaliyah was emotional, clingy and wanted night-night( to breastfeed). She took a nap from 5-ish to 7pm as soon as we got home.  She soiled her pants and wanted to leave them on.

At approx. 7:30 pm, Aaliyah and I were sitting on my couch watching Baby Einstein and I was on the phone with my dad, Aaliyah stated,

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“Grandma doesn’t love me anymore.” 

(I asked why?)

“Grandma watches grandpa hit me.  Grandma doesn’t help me.”

            (I asked where does grandpa hit you?)

“My head.”

“Grandpa sooo mad.”

“Uggghh, like a bear”

“I’m afraid of grandpa”

            ( I asked her to show me how he hits her.)

“Like this.”  As she swung her right arm with her hand open.

“Uggghh.”  ( It sounded like a noise someone would make when frustrated.)

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Minutes later a worm came up on Baby Einstein, Aaliyah freaked out, got off the couch, ran down the hallway screaming bloody murder. I followed her down the hall and asked her what was wrong. Aaliyah stated…

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“I’m afraid.”

“I’m scared.”

“The worm’s not nice.”

“It’s scary.”

            (I asked why.)

“Daddy has a worm.”

“Daddy makes me touch it.”

            (I asked what does the worm look like.)

“An elephant.”  As she put her arm up to her nose to make a trunk of an elephant.

            ( I asked her how she has to touch it.)

“Like this.”  As she put her two hands together, palms down, making a circle with her thumbs and first fingers.

“I don’t like the worm it scares me.”

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At approx 2:30 am Aaliyah woke up from a nightmare kicking and screaming in her sleep. She wanted out of her bed because she is afraid of beds. We went and sat in the hallway in front of the kitchen and ate yogurt. I asked her if she remembered what her bad dreams were about. She stated…

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“Mommy, remember daddy?”

“”Daddy’s so mad. He hurts me and sometimes I get really mad too.”

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I eventually got her back to sleep and we slept in the living room because she was afraid to get back in the bed.  She had a number of nightmares all night long. I rubbed her back to help get her back to sleep each time she woke up.

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June 2, 2008, 

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At 11 am in the bath, Aaliyah tried to stick her old toothbrush up her vagina. I told her don’t do that, why are you doing that?  Aaliyah stated…

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“Daddy told me that girls like that.”

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A number of times throughout the day Aaliyah kept stating…

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“I’m not pretty anymore.”   “I can’t do it.”  I constantly have to help her build up her self esteem.

At the park today Aaliyah kept telling Darrel and I, “I’m not fast enough” and would sit down and pout. She seemed depressed. We kept letting her win the races so we could tell her how fast she was to build up her self esteem.

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She woke up 3 times in the night having nightmares. Today she has barely eaten much of anything. She still is refusing her potty and still frequently wants night-night (which she calls beastfeeding).

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June 3 2008....

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Today Aaliyah was in the bath playing with her mermaid. I asked her if she wanted to pack it to take to her dad’s house.

She stated, “No, she’s afraid of daddy. She stays home with mommy to be safe.” She explained, “I tell the mermaid I don’t like daddy anymore, I don’t like grandpa anymore, I don’t like grandma anymore.” I asked why. She stated “I’m afraid of daddy, I’m afraid of grandpa, They’re so mad, Ughhhh, like bears, they say Ugghhh.” I asked why she doesn’t like grandma anymore. She didn’t answer me.  She stated, “I tell mermaid and my polar bear, daddy hits me. I hug my mermaid because it wants me.” Later I packed her things and she stated, “I don’t want to go to daddy’s anymore.” She crawled up on my lap and fell asleep. She slept on the way there too. Darrel and I met (The Pedophile) and (The peophile's friend) at Raley’s at 4 30. Aali had just woke up and began clinging to me. She stated “I don’t want to go.” He came over and grabbed her out of my arms as she stated, “No, No”.  She began crying and (The pedophile) said “Oh you’ll see her in two days.”  Aaliyah wouldn’t look at him. She eventually quit crying as he was talking to her but she still wouldn’t look at him.

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June 3-5 2008....

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Aaliyah was with (The pedophile).

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June 5, 2008....

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Today at 4 30 at Raley’s Darrel and I met (The pedophile and his friend).  She kept asking for night-night and seemed exhausted but wouldn’t sleep. We walked to the park and Aaliyah stated “I’m afraid.” I asked of what. She stated “the boys.” There were about 5 boys there and she wouldn’t go near them. She played by herself and played “rescue” games. She would state, “Rescue me mommy” “Come up here and save me.” She would give me hugs and thank me for saving her. She soiled her pants and wanted to leave them on. She kept telling me she didn’t go and then finally told me “Mommy I have poo poo in my pants, Im stinky.” She is still refusing the potty.

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At 8:15 pm, I took Aaliyah’s clothes off for her bath. She had a tiny bruise about the size of a dime on her back right hip.  I asked her how she got it. Aaliyah stated…

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“I can’t tell you.”

            I asked why?

“Daddy said so.”

            I told her she had to tell me.

“Daddy hit my tummy right here.”  She pointed to her solar-plex. She began slapping herself in the legs really hard repeatedly. I had to tell her to quit hitting herself to get her to stop.

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In the kitchen approx. 9:35 pm, Aaliyah was stirring her hot dogs in a bowl and began to sing a song…

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“Aaliyah, Aaliyah, your mommy is dead.”

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She woke up 3 separate times in the night yelling for me stating, “I’m afraid.”

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June 6 2008....

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Aaliyah did well emotionally except for when she wanted night night because I wouldn’t give her any boob. She’s still refusing her potty. Sometime between 6 and 10 pm Darrel had 2 friends over one was male. Aaliyah ran screaming from him towards me and stated, “Mommy I’m afraid of guys” She held me and didn’t want down for a while. I couldn’t get her down for a nap today. She had two nightmares in the night.

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June 7, 2008....

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At 8:15 am while sitting at the table for breakfast eating bagels at Darrel’s house, Aaliyah stated…

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“I don’t want to go to daddy’s house anymore. He hits me.”

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Aaliyah did pretty well emotionally today. She is still asking for Night night. She is still refusing the potty. She slept through the entire night tonight.

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June 8, 2008....

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Today at 9:20 am Aaliyah was playing with her rocking horse tipped over on it’s side in the living room. She got in her horse and yelled “Mommy save me, come save the little girl.” I went over to her and picked her up and she hugged me and thanked me. 

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At 11:45 am, Aaliyah was sitting on her tricycle in the bedroom and she began to sing once again…

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“Aaliyah, Aaliyah, your mommy is dead.”

I asked her who taught her that song. She stated…

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“Daddy”

“Daddy’s bad.”

 “He hits me”

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Aaliyah had two nightmares in the middle of the night. One of them she sat up after crying in her sleep she said something but I couldn’t understand what she was saying. The second one she woke up and just got up next to me and went back to sleep.

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June 9, 2008....

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At 9 am I asked Aaliyah if she remembered what her bad dreams were about. She stated, “The crib.” Today at the pool between 1 pm and 4:30 pm Aaliyah kept stating “I can’t swim fast,” “I can’t jump high enough.”

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At approx. 7 pm I was in the bathroom getting ready and Aaliyah came in there to see me and stated…

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“Aaliyah, Aaliyah, your mommy is dead.” 

I asked her again who taught her that song. She stated…

“Daddy.”

            I asked her what else did daddy teach you?  She stated…

“That Auntie is bad.”

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Approx. 9:30 pm, Aaliyah was refusing to sleep in her bed because she was afraid as usual. So she wanted to sleep on the floor. My sister Cara and I turned the camera on because Aaliyah began speaking of "daddy's worm" again. As Cara and I tried to get her into the bed and she began to speak about why she was afraid to get in the bed.... (Everything in quotes is Aaliyah talking)...

"Sometimes, my daddy's worm touch my fingers."
"Remember my dad??"
"Sometimes... I get mad at daddy."
"Sometimes daddy's worm's gone"
"It go away, the worm go away"
"It's on baby Einstein, huh?" (There is also a worm that is on her baby Einstein that she is deathly afraid of now since the abuse has been going on.)
"He sounded really scary; I said I have to stop him. I said don’t do that. The worm, don’t do that. He did it- don’t do that."
"Mommy, Auntie..."
"Auntie, Sometimes... I say don't do that."
"Auntie... the worm, don’t do that, don’t do that, don’t do that."
"Turn on my special bear." (It’s her special bear that glows that my psychologist had me get her to make her feel safe.)
"Sometimes... the worm, don’t do that."
"Don’t do that, don’t do that"
"I tell him don’t, stop, don’t do that, don’t do that. Mommy...
"Mommy I’m cold"
"Don’t do that. Worm don’t do that"
(She starts talking to her baby in her arms)
"She doesn't want to see the worm right now"
"She wants to play with me"
"I don’t like the worm either- Yuck!- That's yucky stop, don’t do that, don’t do that worm, don’t do that daddy's worm, don’t do that"
"Mommy I’m cold" ( I went and got her another blanket)
"Don’t do that worm"
( I asked, what does the worm look like honey?)
"I tried to see him, He's a big giant one"
"He's giant like a baby"
"He tries to look big"
"Yucky, It makes me cough"
"chhhuggg" (She made a gag noise as if it made her choke)
"It makes me cry"
"Daddy get it off"
"He has to wipe it off..."
"...with like a napkin."
"See this, my mouth?"
"Don’t, Don’t touch my mouth worm"
"That's yucky, don’t do that"
(I started crying. Aaliyah started asking…)

“What are you doing mommy? Are you sneezing? Are you sad cause the worm?”
"Do you have a worm too?" (No)
"Do you have a green one or an orange one??" (No, mommy doesn’t have a worm honey.)
"Daddy has one."
"Auntie, do you have one too?" (Cara said, No honey auntie doesn’t have one)
(She starts talking about her baby in her arms)
"She's coughing."
"The worm makes her sick."
"I tell Daddy's worm don’t do that, that makes me sick, that makes me cry, that makes the teddy sick, that makes my teddy sick, that makes my teddy bear sick too."
(It does? It makes mommy sick too.)
"Who, the worm?"
"I don’t have a worm cause I’m home"

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She stayed on the floor, refused to get in her bed and eventually fell asleep to ....Charlotte....’s Web at 1 am.

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 June 10, 2008 ....

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At 1-2 pm Aaliyah and I went to the police station.

At 3 pm Aali and I went to Dr Mitzi Nay (Aali's psychologist) and she spoke about “daddy’s worm in my mouth”  “It’s yucky” “It has hair.”

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@ 4:15 PM: In the car on the way to Loomis to drop Aaliyah off with (The pedophile).  Cara, Darrel, Aaliyah and I present. Aaliyah stated…

                                  

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“Daddy puts his worm in my mouth.”

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“Daddy puts his worm on my tongue.”

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“The worm hurts my tongue.”

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“The worm tastes yucky.”

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“The worm has hair, like the hair on my head.”

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“I don’t want to go to daddy’s house anymore”

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“I don’t like daddy anymore.”

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Darrel called and filed a report with CPS.


 

At the exchange Aaliyah got teary eyed stating “No, No” when he grabbed her. Aaliyah wouldn’t look at him in the face.


 


 

Aaliyah has told me that her dad has taken her to the store to see worms too. And  knowing the pedophile and how he operates I am positive he did that to try to confuse her and brainwash her. He has also at one point had her convinced that he was an actual parrot. I had to unbrainwash her to explain to her that he is a human being.  But all of this info I will soon get on here to completely expose him and his clever and cunning operation so hopefully he cant continue to manipulate all of the people around him and the systems involved. I also hope in doing this that so many people are aware of what he is doing that he starts running his mouth because he will and hopefully with all of his bull stories to so many different people the truth will show by his inconsistancies. We are dealing with a male version of Casey Anthony and I hope that the pedophile gets caught before he harms Aaliyah beyond repair. ....

 

 

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
This is all True too. He is a Sick, Sick individual. He is obsessed with Connie and can't have her, so he takes it out on poor Aaliyah.
Posted on Thursday, February 19, 2009 - 11:39 AM 
by Luis P.
 
 
 
 
 
True story. Its on tape. THANKS CPS. Way to look into it. He is quite a piece of -----. And I was there when he took a baseball bat out on her and started yelling at Connie while Aaliyah was in her arms at 4 weeks old before Alaska.
Posted on Thursday, February 19, 2009 - 12:03 PM 
by Curtis B.
 
 
 
 
This is just a sample of whats going on. It is so obvious and right in your face that you cant believe that these people wouldn't do anything about it. Not only not do anything about it but actually assist in it happening. The Pedophiles claim of Connie being crazy and is coaching Aalyiah to say these things is the only thing he can say. So while they do exams on connie to make sure shes got a clean bill of health they take this poor child away and put her into the hands of the molester, threatening Connie that if she doesnt stop making these claims that she will never see Aaliyah again. They put her in the hands of someone with multiple track records of abuse, alcoholism, and drugs, while having evidence of him being a pedophile. Well, we arent shutting up. We are standing by the truth, and eventually it will all come out. The fog will be lifted and our little Aaliyah will be safe. We pray everyday for our little baby.
Posted  on Thursday, February 19, 2009 - 12:51 PM 
by Christen B.
 
 
 
 
This whole ordeal makes me so sick. I know this is all true. I have witnessed a lot of stuff as well and have been there when Aali has talked about her time with him. I hope every day that this will come to an end and the truth will FINALLY come out so that Aali won't have to continue to be abused by him. I truly hope that we will be able to save her before irreparable damage is done.

By the way, I'm still waiting for calls from CPS, APD, the shrink and all the other agencies who have me listed as a witness. Gotta love our wonderful system.

I love you both!! 
xoxo 
Sarah
Posted on Saturday, February 21, 2009 - 12:15 AM
by Sarah V.
 
 

 
What is sad is this is only a fraction of what Aaliyah has said. I have witnessed her say so much more... for months it was how daddy and grandpa give her owies and how her animals were crying and they were all dead. She would always tell me how we need to be safe from daddy and she would put a pillow over her lap and tell me to do the same so we could be safe.... things like this aren't normal for a 2 yr old to be playing! She would have constant nightmares and never wanted to sleep in her bed anymore.
Then she started stating how daddy hurts her pee pee!!! Not to mention the bruises she would come home with after being at his house!!! 
A number of times we brought this to CPS, every bruise, every comment Aali made, and even a half hour video of Aali talking about Daddy's worm!!! Still they do nothing but call Connie crazy and say she is making her daughter say these things! THERE IS NO WAY YOU CAN MAKE A 2 YEAR OLD TALK FOR A HALF HOUR STRAIGHT ABOUT WHAT DADDY MAKES HER DO TO HIS WORM!!! YOU CANT MAKE A 2 YR OLD ACT OUT EVERYTHING SHE'S BEEN ACTING OUT! YOU CANT MAKE A 2 YR OLD HAVE NIGHTMARES AND WAKE UP SCREAMING THAT SHE DOESN'T WANT TO GO TO DADDYS HOUSE! YOU CAN'T MAKE A 2 YR OLD NOT WANT TO USE HER POTTY ANYMORE!!! CAN'T MAKE A 2YR OLD ALL OF A SUDDEN BE AFRAID OF THE DARK AND AFRAID TO SLEEP IN A BED!!!! CPS, APD, AND THE PLACER COUNTY COURT SYSTEM ARE F**KING GARBAGE and that's an understatement!!! They can call me crazy too cause no matter how hard or how long we have to fight to tell the truth about what Aaliyah has said WE WILL!!!!!! I pray that through all of this my beautiful intelligent neice stays strong and remembers we all love her dearly and that WE BELIEVE EVERY WORD SHE SAYS!!! Any of you that know Connie, know that she is the most honest person! 

EVERY AUTHORITY THAT HAS THE POWER TO DO SOMETHING..... HAS NEVER CALLED TO TALK TO ANYONE THAT HAS WITNESSED AALIYAH SAY AND DO THESE THINGS!!! THEY ONLY LISTEN TO THE POOR PITTY STORY OF LIES THAT THE PEDOPHILE AND HIS MESSED UP FAMILY TELL THEM.... AND NOT ONCE HAVE THEY ATTEMPTED TO LISTEN TO ANYONE OF US THAT HAVE SEEN OR HEARD THAT BABY GIRL!!! 

THEY BUY INTO THE PEDOPHILES STORY TO CALL CONNIE CRAZY FOR TRYING TO FIGHT FOR HER DAUGHTER BUT LITTLE DO THEY KNOW THERE'S A MILLION CRAZIES THAT STAND BEHIND HER THAT WILL KEEP FIGHTING UNTIL OUR BABY IS SAFE! THE TRUTH IS THE TRUTH AND WHAT AALI HAS SAID AND DONE FOR ALMOST TWO YEARS NOW WILL NOT BE HIDDEN OR KEPT QUIET! 

Hey Pedophile!!!....."I GOT YOUR CRAZY!!!"

" WE ALL GOT YOUR CRAZY!" - Cara Bedwell 
Posted on Saturday, February 21, 2009 - 3:55 PM 
by Cara B. 
 

 
 
Every word Connie posted on here is true. She has been fighting for the truth and for the protection of her daughter- but the court system, APD, and CPS have done nothing but harm to her daughter. Aaliyah was NEVER coached in ANYWAY to say anything- she speaks from her own mind and she is asking us for help- but placer county's family law court system has taken her out of her mothers arms and put her into the home of a pedophile. The pedophile's lawyer is friends with everyone in the court system since her husband is one-of-two family law judges in placer county, and they believe what she says instead of hearing the truth and making an intelligent decision without being swayed by her lies. We have seen time and time again this happen to Connie- someone will promise help and to put time and effort into an investigation- but I have never once been contacted by anyone- and I have been there for EVERYTHING! I had to call the detective for APD and literally yell at him just to get him to listen to anything from me- and I told him several key facts he did not bother reading or learning about on his own. One example being how the pedophile is using people to lie for him who were saying that he's a great dad and Connie is making everything up, yet they have restraining orders against them and cannot legally see Aaliyah or be around Connie- they are just saying that to enact revenge against Connie for her telling the truth about who they were and the crimes they committed. He never even watched alot of the videos we turned in to him for the investigation-- great police work detective!!! After filing a report with CPS, I never heard anything back- they even ignored the bruises in the shape of a hand on her arm and hip, they said they were not visible enough and Aaliyah would have to tell them he hit her.
My name was high on the list for everyone to contact, APD CPS the Psychologist- but I have never had my phone ring from any of them!!! 
The pedophile is sick- when Connie and I started dating, Aaliyah loved her father- she was happy to see him, but soon after he knew he lost Connie things changed. Little Aaliyah would actually pull her eye lashes out screaming at the top of her lungs when she saw him- she would beg not to go and try and run away from him. She would dig her nails into Connie and squeeze as hard as her little arms could trying to stay with her mother- but the courts did not care and they did not watch anything or listen, and they put her in his sick home. Aaliyah would NEVER look at him when he picked her up- she would ALWAYS tell us she didnt want to go- that she wanted to go home, or she would ask to go to my house, and it was heartbreaking having to watch him take her away. She used to sleep very well, like a normal baby, but after the real sick stuff started happening, she would always be scared in her sleep- there were several occasions Connie would call me in the middle of the night asking to come over and try and get her to sleep- and we would just have to comfort her and make her feel protected before she would even lay back down. On one occasion minutes after Connie got Aaliyah back from him, Aaliyah was limping BAD- he stayed just watching us play with her, and when we asked the sicko why she was limping he just said "I dont know"-- but then after fifteen minutes or so he started saying something about how she may have hurt it earlier playing at the park- yeah right.

He needs to be stopped- he should NEVER be allowed to see his daughter, let alone have custody of her- our court system is flawed beyond belief- I have seen him screw with Connie in court on so many occasions with visitation schedules, or lies they say to make her look bad, anything he can to just make life harder on Connie, when all she is doing is trying to protect her innocent baby from his messed-up ways- He is a sick person and I hope that he will get what is coming to him soon- but I dont think there is anything on this earth horrible enough for what he deserves after what he is doing to his daughter- so I hope he rots in jail before spending eternity in hell- 

I miss you everyday Aaliyah and I pray you are safe-
Posted on Sunday, February 22, 2009 - 9:44 PM 
by Darrel P.
 

 
 
 

 
 
 
 

 
 
 
 

 
 
 
 

 
  
 I have spent thousands of dollars on this situation and Im broke that is part of the reason he has gotten so far with the abuse is I havent had an attorney recently. And I know for a fact I am not wrong, my daughter has been saying and doing these things for 2 years, children just dont say and do those things, or you would have concerned mothers flipping out all over the place. He is guilty 110 percent. I know how cunning this sicko is. Ive known him for 10 years I have watched him operate. He is good at manipulating and has managed to beat the system. I believe every word my daughter has ever said over this sicko. I know what he has done to me, I know how abuse works with the mind control and manipulation and the fact that my daughter is saying and doing these things I know to believe her over him anyday. When this guys mouth is moving he is lying.



Its hard when you are fighting a criminal that is more intelligent than the system thats why Ive chosen to expose him... I dont know what else to do...


Even in visitation when I see my daughter she still says and does off the wall stuff like while playing with barbies she called the ones without any pants on daddy and stated we need a new daddy. Or the most recent thing is she stated is she thinks daughters have to marry their fathers. There was a day she ripped the eyes out of the "daddy" Mr Potato head and stated she isnt giving him eyes because he is so mad and if he doesnt have eyes that way he cant see her. She always has rashes around her mouth, there is always bruising. He brainwashes the living hell out of her. She just recently stated "Mommys are scary". (And I knowing he is brainwashing her because this isnt the first time ask her "why?" She goes, "I dont know" I asked her if somebody made her say that and she stated "Yes." Yet her behavior is so conflicting with what he brainwashes her with shes always clings to me begging not to leave me. He used to send her home calling me crazy and singing songs about him killing me. One time Aaliyah came in explaining how her tongue hurt and laid limp on me for 40 minutes and the ped tells the supervisor some bs story that oh if she talks about her tongue hurting I had to ice it for her at night...blah blah. Logically and realistically...come on??? He plants seeds in peoples heads before they even have a chance to figure out the truth. Its sickening. This guy is the sickest person I have ever met in my life and his parents are the reason why he is who he is. He is a sociopath and all of this is one big sick game to him and he gets a thrill out of manipulating people. He has things plotted out 10 steps in advance than the average person, you never know what hits you until its too late.



I hope in exposing him that people that are around him will catch on to his extremely manipulative behavior and realize they are just pawns in his sick game. I am sure he has already told numerous people numerous stories explaining why his daughters tongue is hurting and what daddys worm is, etc. And I hope people come forward. Hopefully the whole picture will come together sometime soon for Aaliyahs sake.



Posted on Friday, March 13, 2009 - 10:40 AM 
by Connie B. 
 
 
This absolutely positively is true and it breaks my heart!!! You think that with the descriptiveness of of these incidents (and trust me unfortunately there are many more documented) that someone somewhere would have the balls enough to actually take a serious and unbias look into this matter because there's a beautiful young girls's life at steak here. I've been watching this take place for way to long and I'm totally disgusted with CPS and the courts. To take a Aaliyah away from Connie who loves with her with every fiber in her very being and who would never harm her in way, shape, or form and to let Aaliyah be subjected to this physical, sexual, and mental abuse is effing ridiculous. Connie and Cara have done nothing but work their asses off to provide a safe and loving environment for Aaliyah and are now forced to sit and wait while someone decides to get their head outta their ass and do the right thing and save Aaliyah's innocence and sanity. The two things I do still have faith in is that this will work itself out and Aaliyah will be instilled with courage and strength that her mother possesses and that karma will come back to haunt that sick --- and he will go to jail and have a guy named Bubba make him touch his "worm" and put it in his mouth..... Connie keep your head up Luv and I promise everything will work itself out for the better and will have your babygirl back and outta harms way.
I admire you sooooo much for your strength and resolve and I truly believe that it won't be much longer until the truth is finally realized by the CPS and the courts and you and Aaliyah are reunited! Luv ya!
Posted on Saturday, March 14, 2009 - 4:17 PM 
by Dave

THIS IS A COPY OF THE MOTHER'S ORIGIONAL BLOG ON MYSPACE THAT HAD OVER 4000 VIEWS IN A ONE WEEK PERIOD. THE ABUSER MANAGED TO HAVE HER ACCOUNTS DELETED. HE IS TRYING TO SILENCE THE MOTHER AND ALL OF THE WITNESSES WHOM HAVE NEVER BEEN CONTACTED BY THE SO CALLED "PROFESSIONALS"  THAT HAVE BEEN INVOLVED WITH THIS CASE.  

FOR SOME PECULIAR REASON HOPEFULLY THE FBI CAN FIGURE OUT, WHY THE POLICE WOULD CONTACT ONLY THE PEDOPHILE'S CONTACTS...WE ARE PRETTY SURE THAT ISNT STANDARD PROCEDURE FOR A CHILD MOLESTATION CASE.

IF YOU HAVE ANY WAY TO HELP PLEASE CONTACT US ALL HERE AT SAVEAALIYAH.COM. THANK YOU.

 
 
 
 

 What we need is a psychologist that can review the supervised visitation reports and explain to the Placer County system (that doesn't understand how abuse works) why baby Aaliyah is playing games such as "burying" "killing" her "dead" toys and putting "mommies and babies in the house to be safe." Or why Aaliyah is having Ken whom she called "daddy" kick Barbie in the back.(Aaliyah complained of her daddy kicking her in the back and bonking her head on the table in early 2008 and came home with a bruise across her back and on her forehead...cps did nothing!! There is only one explanation of why she is making her toys do all of this! We need a psychologist to explain things such as why she's telling the toys to shut up and hitting them, or why she would be trying to kick her way out of her grandpas arms. Aaliyah is in grave danger with this sick family. During the police investigation the grandpa made Aaliyah call him Papi. Aaliyah speaks of him as two different people and split personalities. Grandpa is mad and hits and Papi is nice.Just as her father has tried to convince her he was a parrot.  

 If any dectectives of any sort are reading this, the reason why APD cant figure this situation out is that after Aaliyah spoke of "daddy's worm" once again on June 9th 2008. The police did not watch the video the mother brought in to them on the 10th, instead made the mother turn Aaliyah over to the father for a few days for his visitation. After which Aaliyah once again came home to the mother brainwashed by the pedophile stating, "I love Daddy, Daddy said so" "I love daddy's worm" Darrel is bad,  Daddy said so" Daddy said I love daddy not Darrel" "Mommy makes me say these things, daddy said so"  "Daddy took me to the store to see worms."  "daddy's worm is on him" "the worm has one eye"...etc etc.  Darrel (the Mom's boyfriend) called the detective on the case and told him to watch the video. The detective set up an MDIC interview then (finally). In the interview Aaliyah stated one liners the pedophile brainwashed her with thanks to the Police and CPS ignorantly placing her in his home again to be brainwashed before her interview. Its not hard to figure out why they got the results they got. You can clearly see Aaliyah is not being coached and speaks for 27 min. straight about the abuse, yet he brainwashes her to make her say one liners and it confuses everyone involved. And the police cant figure out that he is brainwashing her because he is molesting her. The police would have knowledge of this information if they actually "investigated" and spoke to the numerous witnesses involved that have seen her come home and say the cunning lines the pedophile makes her say on top of the behaviors she exhibits from the abuse...they could probably then piece the picture together and save Aaliyah before he harms her badly. And in case nobody understands what those games mean that Aaliyah is playing...He is threatening once again to kill Aaliyah and her mommy. 

The last 10 months Aaliyah has been in full custody of her father being threatened and abused while seeing her mother on supervised visitation 2 hours a week. Even still the signs of physical, sexual and emotional abuse are there documented in the reports.

One tool that the pedophile has now to use to keep everyone confused ( just the way he likes it)  is CONTROL. The public and systems dont seem to be educated on abuse and dont understand that if you put a child in the control of the abuser, they maintain the control to abuse. He knows when to and when not to molest her for any evaluation that is done to get the results he needs to fool people for the time being. Take notice he is trying to CONTROL the mother by what he is doing to his daughter. He is trying to CONTROL the mother by filing a restraining order to have her silenced. He is trying to CONTROL Aaliyah to keep her quiet about what he is doing to her.

PLEASE HELP!!!!

 

TO ANSWER A NUMBER ONE QUESTION WE ARE GETTING:

WHY DID THE MOTHER GET THE CHILD TAKEN AWAY?

 THE ANSWER:

 FOR CONSTANTLY STANDING UP FOR THE TRUTH AND NOT COMPLYING WITH THE COURT SUGGESTING SHE BE OK WITH COPARENTING WITH THE PEDOPHILE. THE SYSTEM IS SIMPLY PUNISHING THE MOTHER FOR STANDING UP FOR THE TRUTH AND TRYING TO PROTECT HER DAUGHTER.

  Background of the situation:

The so called father in this situation has been abusive to the mother for years. He has done a number of things such as slam her head in the trunk of his mercedes there was a 911 call made, slammed her into a laundry room door breaking it off its hinges while she was pregnant, etc... 2 weeks before her due date with Aaliyah he had threatened to kill her. When Aaliyah was 8 days old he called her a little ***** brat because she was crying in her crib. When she was 4 weeks old he threw 3 soiled diapers at the mother while breastfeeding the baby and one hit Aaliyah in the face, he tried to trap her in the room and got in her face calling her names. He proceeded to pull out a baseball bat out on her and stole the carseat so she was unable to leave. She jumped over the bed  and managed to escape the room. Due to this incident the mother took the baby and fled to Alaska. She was told by the court Aaliyah would be protected by the system through his visitation supervised due to his alcohol and physical abuse towards the mother and child, so she moved back to CA 9 months later.  The abuse began during the supervised visitation with his parents as the supervisors. Aaliyah's behavior completely changed  toward her father May of 2007. Her first major set of bruises were July of 2007 with a bruise under her arm, one across her thigh and one across her hip. CPS did nothing. He ran to court to get custody knowing that she could no longer afford an attorney. A new judge to the case granted him 50 50 custody because his attorney convinced the judge he had already had 50 50 custody. The abuse only got worse... Aaliyah would come home with rashes around her mouth, having nightmares, regressed in her potty training and wanted to be breast fed again. Aaliyah began hitting, choking and slapping her toys, stating they were all dead, crying scared, and bad. (there have been a total of 11 CPS reports throughout this situation). Aaliyah came home from his house in Jan 2008 with a bruise across her lower back and a bruise on her forehead stating daddy kicked her in the back and she bonked her head on the table. CPS did nothing. That same time fram she began speaking of daddy hurting her pee pee. A restraining order was filed. During the restraining order she began to use the bathroom again until his supervised visitation started again. The police began a so called invetigation. The court granted him 50 50 custody while the investigation was going on. He brainwashed aaliyah that he was a parrot. The grandpa began to make Aaliyah call him Papi. Aaliyah spoke of him as two different people with two different personalities. Grandpa was mean and hits her and Papi was nice to her.  She began telling us of daddy's worm  that "it has hair, like the hair on my head" and "it has one eye." There were numerous times of her complaining of the worm hurting her tongue. She would lick her mother and Aunt. She told them to kiss her baby with their tongues. She would ask her mother if she saw her naked "Where did your pee pee go? Assuming that there was supposed to be more to it. Aaliyah would state to put pillows over your lap to be safe from daddy. She has played "Be safe" games and continues to do so even to this day. The video of "daddy's worm" was captured June 9 2008. (this part of the situation you can read above in red) This coparenting program called STEP got involved with the court case. At their first hearing they attended they took Aaliyah from her mother and  blindly placed her in the home of the child molester. They told him they were going to put a therapist in the home to check up on him...like he is really going to molest her during this period knowing they are watching. 

 He has had custody of her for 10 months. She is under his full control and threats. He is in control of the evaluations done and knows when to and when not to molest her to fool  the people he needs to keep her in his full custody to continue victimizing her.    

  

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

 
 
 

 

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